Don't marry a woman trained by a single moda...

Don't marry a woman trained by a single  moda...

Men

When you present the woman you want to marry to your wise father, the first question he will ask you is; "where is she from?"

After you told him about her village or tribe,  he will proceed to ask you  about her  parents.

He will be curious to know if her parents are  living together or separated. If you tell him that her parents are not living together, he will be silent for a while before asking you if she grew under the tutorage of her father or mother..

He will definitely be disappointed when you tell him that she grew under her mother, he will frankly advise you not to marry her .

But because love has already beclouded your sense of reasoning, you will agitate and ignore your father's advice.

After few months of marriage, you will start seeing clearly and end up regretting of marrying her. 

Our people said that what an elder sees sitting down, a child can't see it even if he climbs on  the  giant iroko tree.

Never you ignore your father's advice when it comes to marriage, he definitely knows more than you.

One thing in  common in all women raised by single modas is that they are too rude and lack discipline. A father is meant to instill discipline to his child for his or her life to be balanced. This is why any child who has no father figure, lacks discipline.

It is worse if she is girl child because she will become unruly and wayward and note that women hardly change from how they were groomed.

It will shock you to know that, a woman will push her underaged daughter to get boyfriend by constantly warning her;  "stop asking me for money, you are no longer a child. Your mates already have boyfriends  that take care of them."

The girl will grow up with the entitlement mentality, believing that her problems are going to be solved by merely getting a boyfriend.

Women are not bothered if their daughters sleep or spend days with their boyfriend's , something which a father can't tolerate. Infact, if your girlfriend constantly sleep in your house without being afraid of her parents, this is a  redflag. It is either she lacks father figure or her father is a feminine man controlled by her mother .

She is a spoilt brat,  a sex toy to many men, you will definitely breath dust getting married to her.

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Many women trained by single modas end up becoming misandrists and feminists because they were taught the negative side of men from infancy. 

Men are disciplinarians, every child needs a father figure in her life no wonder your mother will always threatening to report you to your father when you failed to obey any family rules and regulations.

If you have issues with your wife that led to separation, make sure that your girl child is under your custody. If you want to get married and discovered that she has no father figure while growing up, don't marry her or it will end in premium tears.

Be wise 

Don't looseguard.

@al