seeking advice about pain during sex.

seeking advice about pain during sex.

Wondering If I can post anonymously.  Thank you in advance. 

To start with, my doctor said this is very rare, and there is no known cure except getting fixed might help it. He is suggesting full removal of tubes and partial of cervix leaving the ovaries. My problem started a few years ago, after 13 years of sex, and two births (both normal and they're half grown now) There isn't pain with penetration, but with orgasm. I can be alone, with someone, only stimulated on the outside or on the inside, and it ultimately causes the same pain during and after the orgasm. Sometimes it's a minor pain on my left side below and to the center of my hip bone. Sometimes it's intense, that same pain and then what feels like period cramping along my cervix area. It's horrible and happens every single time I orgasm. I've tried over the counter meds and even drinking and a hot bath. I am currently on the arm implant but no other meds or medical history. Does anyone else have a different diagnosis or treatment plan? I am worried going thru the surgery won't fix my problem and it will just lead to more issues. Thank you